DIVORCE IN THE SIDE OF A MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

At the annual conference of The American Psychiatric Association (APA) in Miami, there was a workshop entitled "Family Crisis". The results of a study said that in the last 30 years, 60% of families in the United States ended in divorce, and 70% of their children did not develop well, behave deviant or antisocial. For example seen juvenile delinquency, abuse of NAZA (Narcotics, Alcohol, and other Addictive Substances), promiscuity, deviant sexual behavior and so on. It was also stated that divorce rates are increasing, marriages are decreasing because many people choose to live together without marriage or single life and free sex. Disloyalty (abuse) among families in the US turned out not to be the monopoly of husbands alone, but 40% of the wives there were also involved in affair with third parties. Of the five marriages in the first five years, three divorces occurred. The author gives the purpose of writing to discuss the crisis in the household, rebuild the household and give Christian values in counteracting divorce. The author uses descriptive literature research method data and provides research results: How a harmonious family can be established dynamically if we base our family building on the basis of strong Christian spirituality values accompanied by a fabric of good communication between us and our children. Surprisingly few studies have explored the implications of divorce happened because family can not be established, especially in young adulthood. This study addresses several theoretical arguments linking divorce in the side of spiritual value with reduced religious involvement in young adulthood and tests relevant hypotheses using data from a unique sample. Results show that divorce in the side of spiritual value is associated with substantially lower communicate religious involvement among young adults in their families house.

在美国迈阿密举办的美国精神病学年会（APA）上，举办了一场题为“家庭危机”的研讨会。一项研究结果显示，在过去三十年间，美国60%的家庭以离婚告终，而其中70%的孩子未能健康成长，表现为行为异常或反社会。例如，青少年犯罪、滥用毒品（包括麻醉品、酒精和其他成瘾性物质）、滥交、性行为偏差等现象。同时指出，离婚率正在上升，婚姻率在下降，原因是许多人选择同居而不结婚，或者选择单身生活及自由性爱。在美国，家庭中的不忠（虐待）并非仅限于丈夫一方，其中40%的妻子也涉及与第三方的婚外情。在头五年内，五对夫妇中就有三对离婚。作者阐述写作目的在于探讨家庭危机，重建家庭结构，并在反对离婚中传播基督教价值观。作者采用描述性文献研究方法，提供了研究结果：如果我们以坚实的基督教精神价值为基础，辅以我们与子女之间的良好沟通，那么如何动态地构建一个和谐的家庭。令人惊讶的是，很少有研究探讨因家庭无法建立而导致离婚的后果，尤其是在年轻成年人中。本研究针对将精神价值方面的离婚与年轻成年期宗教参与度降低联系起来的理论论点，并使用独特样本的数据来检验相关假设。结果显示，精神价值方面的离婚与年轻成年人在家庭中参与宗教沟通的程度显著降低相关。